Studs are passionate, and loving. They are compassionate and nurturing. Abounding studs wish continued appellation relationships, and marriage. There are even studs that wish to accept and accession children! I accept studs accomplish abundant parents, because they accept a spectrum of talents, education, and spirituality. Studs present themselves with a top faculty of pride, exuding accustomed adorableness that no corrective can provide.
Many studs are spiritual, all-embracing airy practices instead of organized religion. Abounding studs accept adopted article from non-denominational churches, aswell metaphysics, and even Buddhism! As far as the Biblical Scripture, studs accept taken the attitude that age-old argument and accusation do not reflect our absolute admiring lifestyles.
A stud would never abrasion frilly, floral or polka dot clothing! A stud would never abrasion ruffles; brightness her nails ablaze cool colors, or abrasion a advance up bra. A stud would never abrasion panty hose, stilettos, abrasion abounding make-up, or big blatant jewelry. A stud would never abrasion adult feminine lingerie. Studs would never abrasion flowers in their hair, or cool bound clothing!
Some accustomed names for stud women are butch, dom, boi, aggressive, annoyance king, rock butch, top and the account goes on. All studs are different. Some studs are stone-butch, who do not analyze with annihilation changeable or feminine. There are aswell women advised soft-studs who may accept an androgynous attending or personality. There are studs who are athletes, some accept a hip hop look, and others abrasion tailored Armani apparel and Stacy Adams. Abounding studs are bikers adorned with covering chaps and a skull cap, admitting others accept a country western look!
When I was younger, I acquainted awkward and misunderstood. I looked like a boy! As boyhood disappeared, I noticed my actualization of dress abashed and incited beeline people. It fabricated them uncomfortable. I didn't accept a botheration with my appearance, but anybody abroad did! As I grew into stud hood, images of what was advised able always abounding my consciousness. Everywhere I turned, the church, the television and in every magazine, feminine women were added accepted. The amalgamation I presented was not ideal. My aunt would say, "A able adult is declared to attending like this, sit and smile like this. A admiring woman accept to airing like this, act this way, and allocution like this"! I had actually no absorption in getting a able lady! I just capital to go shoot basketball, and amend my Hot Wheels collection!
What studs represent challenges peoples ideals, behavior and their acumen of God and Biblical scripture. What we represented crosses people's boundaries. We accomplish humans think.
Many ask why are studs so masculine, why you so hard? Well, historically studs/masculine women accept systematically been discriminated adjoin adopted from association and even murdered. Back in the 1950's a adult woman had to be harder for abounding reasons. First and foremost she had to avert herself adjoin the abounding horrors of getting adult in an aboriginal American society. Adult women provided for themselves, not depending on anyone for their sustenance or survival. In aspect they did the aforementioned chiral activity as their macho peers.
I accept studs arise adult to the alfresco apple because the apple cannot relate. Studs feel a assertive faculty of backbone and pride in cogent their accurate nature. Often studs are criticized by association for aggravating to attending like a man. The actuality is, studs do wish to attending like men. Studs wish to be comfortable. They wish to attending the way they feel emotionally or spiritually.
A stud's adulthood is a ample spectrum. Did you apperceive abounding changeable Olympic athletes accept been butterfingers for not getting genetically female? My baby acquaintance Marie is phenotypically female, but genetically male! Not alone is Marie hormonally and chemically male, she has macho attributes! According to Marie's doctors, Marie was built-in with the accustomed overproduction of the macho hormone testosterone. She has basal to no assembly of changeable hormones. So I ask, are studs wrongfully discriminated adjoin because they may accept added macho chromosomes or built-in with an over assembly of testosterone?
In western association every bearing is accepted to be conceived with XY or XX chromosomes. Typically those with XY or XX chromosomes will abound up to be a man or a woman. They accept alien and centralized organs that are acutely distinguishable. Accordingly those bodies who are built-in XY or XX will be by itself admiring to the adverse sex. Often this is not he case if a changeable baby is built-in with macho chromosomes and hormones!
Another actuality is that hormones activate attributes or aggression. Genetically abounding changeable breed are apparent to the macho androgen (sex hormone) alleged Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia or CAH. Changeable breed apparent to the macho hormone abound up searching and acting like boys. Initially these accouchement are alleged tomboys because they display a asperous or adult nature. They are athletic, muscular, mannish, and abundant added advancing than females built-in after the macho hormone. Instead of getting admiring to feminine gendered toys, clothes, or activities they are absolutely the opposite. The macho androgen influences their likes, dislikes, and orientation. Abounding studs/ lesbians abound facial hair and their articulation deepens during adolescent! Ultimately all of their behaviors are ascendancy by this hormone! Some of these ancestry are all stud/butch characteristics.
The best way to accept the consequence of this advice is that sex and gender are two altered things. They accept annihilation to do with animal deviance. Studs/ lesbians are not aggravating to be men!
Of advance the conservatives wish this accurate advice to abide hidden so that we can abide abiding targets for biased laws, abandon and discrimination.
Again, I anticipate it is ridicules to discriminate adjoin any person. Throughout history the Bible is acclimated to discriminate adjoin gay people. The actuality is, the books of the Bible were accounting in a pre-scientific age. The authors of the abundant books were not acquainted of animal minorities, chromosomes, DNA, or women that aftermath testosterone. They did not accept the technology to actuate the absolute facts about the added sexes and the chromosome variations in which we are born.
Like society, our association is acutely diverse; there are abounding types of studs from abundant backgrounds, from every ability and religion. Some cultures embrace women who are lesbian, a lot of do not. Abounding cultures like our own accept been accomplished to abuse annihilation that is altered or they do not understand.
One of the better problems in the gay and lesbian association is homophobia. Homophobia is built-in from Biblical and religious benightedness that fuels the affliction that studs action on a circadian basis. This virus causes the abridgement of visibility, the activity of getting blank and abrogating media stereotypes. Because of this benightedness it is believed that all studs abhorrence men! Studs wish to be or imitate a man. Studs anticipate they are men, accordingly accept a brainy illness! Studs are the abomination! It's believed that all studs abusers, womanizers, and that they backpack disease! All of these belief grew from fear, benightedness and Biblical intolerance.
The band-aid to eliminating these negatives is to accommodate humans with absolute advice that reflects our image, our politics, struggles and triumphs.
The biased biased laws of this land, and all that administer it, accept alone quenched and adequate STUD our spirits!
Of advance the church, the school, the medical center, Uncle Leroy, and Grandma requires any adult woman to be feminine and visually adorable in their eyes. We are accepted to be soft, passive, demure, and aesthetically adorable to anybody alfresco ourselves. But that is not our reality. I banned to avoid my accurate self. I've been labeled all sorts of things like dyke and balderdash dagger. Through all of that, I accepted my assortment and my differences from others. I accept a bright compassionate and accepting of who I am and who we are.
My adoration is that adult women will alpha a revolution, a massive movement against boilerplate visibility! Adult women's afterimage and the affection abaft it are continued overdue!
Stud women are a force with absolute abeyant and power. I feel it is acute to allay the stereotypes, and the myths. We accept to empower ourselves no best accepting anyone or anticipation action to ascendancy us. All women attempt for acceptance, love, and self-affirmation, but for us it's different. We are different.
This country is ALWAYS talking about association and unity. It doesn't amount if the getting is a harder amount stud with fifty tattoos, hip hop gear, or a shinny new chopper. We are a able and assured nation. It's time that we acceleration up and embrace who we are below the surface.
What the apple accept to apperceive is that God/ Spirit has never created annihilation alfresco of itself! Never. Everything that we can see and blow came from one source! God does not judge, abhorrence or kill. God is not homophobic, authentic or sexist. God would never use a airy argument to marginalize his own creation. God does not adulation with conditions, nor is God compartmentalized.
"There is annihilation added able than an abstraction whose time has come"
Dr. Martin Luther King
Azaan Kamau
I just appear STUD: Dispelling the Myths!
Conceived in the summer of 2003 and built-in December 2008, award-winning author, announcer and photographer, Azaan Kamau, releases, "STUD: Dispelling the Myths," on the eve of a above political about-face in the United States of America. The groundbreaking, "STUD, Dispelling The Myths," takes a abstract airing through the activity of a masculine-identified woman from a sociological, anthropological, and airy appearance point. STUD appearance bedfellow commentary, images and interviews from some of America's a lot of abounding poets, writers, lyricists and performers such as DJ Nova Jade, Damnyo and Quandi Jackson of Afrikan Visions. STUD aswell includes a attenuate account with butch icon, LEGEND-The Original Gender Bender. STUD is accommodation with actual pictures, amusing antidotes and truths about activity lived as a changeable with a adult exterior/interior and the writer's own airy insights. Writer Azaan Kamau speaks about the adventures that led her to pen STUD, "Stud is a appellation that identifies a lesbian woman whose close getting and alien persona magnifies what association sees as masculine. In the aboriginal canicule of the LGBTq movement, women like me were alleged tomboy, stud, butch, bulldyke, bulldagger and added terms. Abounding such women had to abide a activity abounding with acumen and affliction artlessly because of how they looked. "STUD is for any woman who has anytime fabricated a activity or career best that defied her gender identity. From the changeable surgeon, architecture worker, president, pilot or boxer to the accustomed taxpayer, mother, adjudicator and breast blight survivor--STUD is for women who are affected to abolish the appetite to accurate their womanness as they are inherently led because of what association ability think.
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